Twenty-five years ago, I saw an ad for my position on the back of a social work newsletter. I wasn’t looking for a job at the time, but it looked interesting, so I sent in my resume. On the day of the interview, I almost did not show up but decided that would be rude, so I went to practice my interviewing skills. When I learned more about the Jewish community, I knew I wanted to be part of it.
Being employed at Jewish Family Service is a special position with unique opportunities. My favorite part of the job is when I become part of someone else's tribe, when someone opens their heart and shares their experiences with me, when someone allows me to look behind the curtain and support them through a difficult time. It is an honor and privilege I do not take lightly.
I have walked with countless individuals and families through difficult seasons of life and through some of the greatest moments of their lives. I have worked with famous people and a few infamous people. But mostly I work with ordinary people who need a little extra support. I truly care about each person who I have the privilege to work with.
I will never truly know the impact of my work with individuals, but I do know and recognize the impact this community has had on me. I have created lasting relationships within the community that support me personally and professionally. I have been inspired by watching entire families raise their children and grandchildren to know the value of a mitzvah. I have been immersed in Jewish values that has affected all areas of my life. I am a better person because of the love within this community.
I have felt loved and supported every day of these 25 years. The Jewish Community is family to me. When I am struggling or having a tough day, all I have to do is leave my office and go into the community. I can always find a smiling face and the strength to move forward. While I may not be a Jew, I am Jew-ish and a member of this tribe.
I want to extend an open invitation to anyone who does not know me or would like to get to know me better, to reach out. I want to know you. I want to support you.
Thank you to this community for loving me for 25 years.
Toni Jacobsen is the clinical director of Jewish Family Service of Nashville. She recently celebrated her 25th anniversary with JFS and was honored with this year’s Chesed Award.
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