As we gather to celebrate Tu B'Shevat, the Jewish New Year for trees, I am reminded of a cherished family tradition. Each year, on our daughter Shoshana Ella's Hebrew birthday, which coincides with Tu B'Shevat, we would prepare a special dessert: chocolate pudding layered with crumbled Oreo cookies to resemble soil, filled with gummy worms, and adorned with a small plastic plant symbolizing a tree. This playful treat was more than just a celebration of her birthday; it was a meaningful way to connect our kids with our heritage, planting deep Jewish roots, connection to the Land of Israel where the trees were blooming, and creating positive memories.
In Judaism, the comparison of a person to "a tree of the field" (Deuteronomy 20:19) offers profound insights into personal growth and resilience. Just as a tree requires four essential elements—soil, water, air, and sunlight—to thrive, individuals need a strong foundation, nurturing environments, and supportive communities to foster resilience. The soil, providing nourishment and stability for a tree's roots, parallels the importance of a solid base – whether that be a home, synagogue, school or the JCC– the soil where we can be ourselves, make our mistakes, and still be accepted, loved and nourished where values and morals are cultivated. In challenging times, having a haven allows us to return, refresh, and continue growing.
For over 1700 of our clients, Jewish Family Service (JFS) is that haven and solid base where our staff is dedicated to helping individuals and families establish and strengthen these vital roots. Our comprehensive services are designed to support the community through various life stages and life challenges, ensuring that everyone has access to the resources they need to flourish. Two examples include:
Counseling Services: Life's challenges can be overwhelming, but no one must face them alone. Our licensed social workers offer counseling for individuals, couples, families, and children, providing a safe space to navigate personal and relational difficulties. By fostering mental and emotional well-being, we help clients build resilience and develop coping strategies.
Food & Financial Assistance: Financial hardships can destabilize even the strongest of foundations. JFS provides emergency financial assistance, including help with utility bills and rent, as well as material support such as kosher food boxes and school supplies. By alleviating these stresses, we enable individuals and families to regain stability and focus on growth.
This Tu B'Shevat, as we celebrate the renewal of nature, let us also reflect on the importance of nurturing our own roots and extending our branches toward a brighter future. By fostering strong foundations—through family traditions, community support, and personal growth—we build the resilience needed to withstand life's storms and continue to grow.
If you or someone you know could benefit from our services, please reach out at (615) 356-4234 or info@jfsnashville.org. We are committed to being the fertile soil that supports your journey, helping you stay grounded, foster resilience and flourish.
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